About You

Your Self-Assessment

Answer honestly: Never, Sometimes, or Often.

1Do you have a regular time to talk about important things, have healthy conflict, and make decisions?
2Do you have a regular date with your spouse on the calendar that you're happy with?
3Do you have couples older than you that you see regularly that you admire/respect?
4Do you have couples younger than you that you see regularly that admire/respect you?
5Do you have couples at your level that you see regularly that you can share life with?
6Do you have a common goal you're working on together as a couple?
7Do you know each other's current personal goals?
8Do you take time to pray daily as a couple and individually?
9Are you secure in who you are as a couple, such that you don't struggle with comparison?
10Are you and your spouse on the same page with your finances?
11Are you and your spouse on the same page with your faith?
12Are you on the same page with the state of your home?
13Are you on the same page with the state of your children?
14Do you spend intentional time with people who are not Catholic or not Christian or not practicing their faith?
15Do you have relationships with your next-door neighbors?
16Do you spend time regularly deepening your knowledge of the faith?
17Do you spend time regularly praying with and for other people?
18Do you set aside time for retreats and days of rest?
19Are you frequenting the sacraments?
20Do you attend workshops/retreat/classes to help your marriage?